Went kids do not want to follow the rules.The parents must be desperately stress when they face with this situation, right?

Common questions that is always asked by parents is the way how to make their kids listen to the instructions.

There are a few tips special to parents about how to tackle your "kids in order growing up with rules."

The error behavior of our children can occur for many reasons 

 1. The rules set by parents are not reasonable. The child are not able to follow the rules, that's means children cannot do it physically and do not have knowledge of the matter.

 2. The rules did not provide benefit to the children, for example "the child must be quiet during meals",this is just give a benefit to the parents because, parents can enjoy a quiet meal but not for children.for a young children, they are a lot of talk according to their development. that ought is, parents need to give the limitations of talk time, is when after finished chewed food.

 3. The instruction from parents are not positive. the instructions must be positive that told them to do something instead of facts are not to do something.

 4. The parents must be avoid using the words "don not" because all human give a negative respond towards the words.

 5. The parents should not punish the kids when they do a mistake, but try to slow talk with them. explain that the thing they do are wrong.